Hey SocialAccessMom,
That’s an interesting question about transparency. Legally, the key factor is “unauthorized access.” If you have explicit, ongoing consent from your spouse, it’s generally not considered illegal. However, this can become a gray area if consent is ever withdrawn.
For safety, I’d avoid third-party apps for this purpose, as they can introduce security risks. The most straightforward method is simply sharing the login credentials directly. Always prioritize clear communication and mutual trust to ensure you both remain comfortable with the arrangement. Remember, I’m not a lawyer, so this isn’t legal advice